My First Japanese Friend

My First Japanese Friend
I've had enough friends in this world. Not. Did I get you there? Not funny? Alright.
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friendship

Italian artist Pontormo, the two friends portrait by C. 1522
Friendship is a mutual affection of the relationship between people and people. [1] friendship is a strong form of interpersonal union Association. Friendship, sociology, social psychology, anthropology, has been studied in academic fields such as philosophy. Several academic theory is social theory friendship exchange, equity theory, including relational dialectics, and attachment styles have been proposed. The study of global databases happiness, it was found that happy people with close friendship.

They can vary from place to place, but there are many ways to some of their friendship, specific characteristics, the union, which is present in many types. This characteristic is love, compassion, empathy, honesty, altruism, mutual understanding, compassion, the company fun of each other, trust and being yourself is to express their feelings, the decision a friend without fear, including the possibility of making mistakes.

Type of people that there is no practical limit of what is possible to form a friendship, but friends have a common background, they share a profession or interests that tend to have similar demographics.

Developmental psychology
In a typical sequence of the emotional development of the individual, the friendship comes before marriage and after linking pairs of parents. In the period between the beginning of the end of childhood and the full adult, friendship, in many cases, is the most important in the emotional lives of adolescents, in many cases, adulthood relationship is stronger than the relationship in between. The absence of a friend can be emotionally damaging.

Evolutionary psychology approach to human development, has led to a number of theories of Dunbar which has been proposed by British anthropologist Robin Dunbar. According to his theory, human human can maintain stable social relationships, there is a limit of about 150 people.

Childhood [edit]

Childhood friend
Often children, friendship, often part of toys based on the pleasure received from performing activities together. These friendship is love, sharing, it has been maintained over time creative play. Share but it is difficult for children of this age are more likely to be shared with anyone believes that the friend (Newman and Newman, 2012). As children mature, they are less becomes an aside, we are more aware of the other. They are looking at the view of friends, they start to enjoy in a group. When they move through childhood center, which also experience peer rejection. To establish a good friendship at an early age, you can help a child acclimated to society in a way more in the second half of his life (Newman and Newman, 2012). In the 1975 study. It is expected that Billow and The Gaia so that the child grows, "best friend" was found to be increasingly complex. In the study, 480 children in the sample of 6 and 14 years of age, this condition was considered. Their findings, emphasized the three stages of development to the expectations of friendship. In the first stage, children have emphasized the importance of exchange activities and geographical proximity. Second, share, we emphasized the Pledge of Allegiance, and. In the final stage, they are increasingly attitudes, similar values, and I would like to take advantage. According to Bend, provincial behavior, privacy, and other positive feature is high, friendship sons Award. Dispute, domination, rivalry and has been affected by a negative feature high friendship. The high quality of friendship is, in many cases, is assumed to have a positive effect on many aspects of social development of a child. Despite such advantages perception of friendship include greater social success, they are obviously not include the impact on children of the general self-esteem. Adults and a lot of research is friendship and other assistance related to self-esteem (Bern, 2002). Another potential friendship suggesting that no large advantage, [requires a complete reference] to include the opportunity to learn about empathy and problem solving. As a parent coach it can be useful to help children make friends. Eileen Kennedy-Moore, describes the three main components of the sons of forming friendships. Opening, to understand the similarities, and (3) share the joy. Parents also social patterns that children do not learn at their own (2) to help. "What's in it for me", "I want my way", ": From research of Robert Seaman and others, Kennedy Moore, understand the point of view of others to reflect. increasing the capacity of children of friendship, exposes the stage of development standards, "" caring and sharing "and" swashbuckling to a friend. "

Puberty

Two friends in Bhutan
In a study conducted at the University of Texas at Austin (eg theft of struggle, such as non-attendance) for engaging in the behavior problem is to determine how it was relevant to their friendship, examined more than 9000 young people of America. results of the survey are young, their friends to participate in the activities of the possibility of the school was less devoted to behavioral problems when they did well in school, avoid drinking, he proved to have good mental health. The opposition has been discovered about the young man who was devoted to the problem behavior. Young, whether or not it is under the influence of his friends to participate in problem behavior, depending on how much they have been exposed to their friends, specify whether if "fit" of their friendship group at school you. [fifteen]

Studies conducted by researchers at Purdue University, found friendship that forms between the end of a long upper to the formation of friendship ahead education.

Adulthood

Friendship in adulthood
A marriage, parenthood, life events, such as accelerated professional development, friendship can complicate the transition from adolescence to middle adulthood. After marriage, both women and men is of the opposite sex (Friendship, 2012) reported that with a little friend. [You must have full quote]

Adults also be able to find in order to maintain friendship is significant in a particularly difficult job site. Since learning that the "workplace of people to hide the vulnerability and the habit of colleagues, friendship can crackle in the competition, in many cases, work to take the feeling of the transaction; .. When you start both ends and true friendship network is difficult. "most adults to say, the security of your work colleagues appreciate friendship with finances.

Most adults have an average of two close friends.

Old age
As family and professional responsibilities pressure is reduced, the friendship becomes more important. In the elderly, friendship will be able to provide more links to the community. In particular, for those who can not get out often, interaction with friends, allowing continuous social interaction. In addition, older people's health declining keep in touch with friends, shows the improved psychological well-being.

Older people prefer an established relationship with a family that new, but the formation of friendship can continue to old age. With age, the elderly, there is a small number of friends for people who feel closer inform that live in the same community. They tend to choose the age, gender, race, ethnicity, friends, its value is like his own. Compared to younger, less elderly, they have reported friendship with the opposite sex. older woman is, in particular, not plurality of secondary friends inside - but you have the people, and that they, like the group meets for lunch or a bridge, spending time occasionally.

An important part of making friends, sharing ideas and feelings.
Three important factors make possible the formation of a friendship.

Proximity - have the closeness and interaction location and the location where you want.
Repeat, unplanned interaction; Y
Adjusting encourage people to trust each other. [twenty-one]
Dissolution
Friendship is terminated by a variety of reasons. Sometimes the relationship between friends away from each other, vanished due to the distance. Digital technology, however, the geographical distance of obstacles in order to maintain friendship has been reduced. People or twice or divorce to drop people divorce, will make the end of the friendship. For young people, friendship may end as a result of the acceptance of new social groups.

Friendship softly or may be terminated by disappears, you can quit unexpectedly. How and whether to talk about the end of friendship is the label of the problem depends on the situation.

Problem of development
ADD and ADHARA [edit]
They are impulsive and hyperactive behavior by fighting, sometimes the need to maintain attention deficit disorder (ADD) children, you may not have the difficulty of forming a friendship. Children, but could inadvertently complicate the process with attention deficit disorder (ADD) is, keep as much as possible of problems, you might not maintain the friendship.

Parents of children with ADD worry about their children's ability to form a long-term friendship. ". - Talk, listen, share and so on, is empathetic, and these skills does not come naturally to ADD and children and friends Making" According to Mandela, "hundreds" of skills to maintain necessary. Since the formation of a also a good friendship difficulty listening to others, and then inhibit children with ADD and ADHARA. Also children with these disorders, which can get rid of other people for "impulsively to unkind remarks." Destructive behavior, can become very complicated for classmates.

Autism
Children with autism spectrum disorders are, usually, with some of the difficult to form friendships. Some of the symptoms of autism, daily behavior, resistance to change, attachment to individuals and ceremonies interests, and to interfere with the formation of interpersonal relationships as favorite due to the lack of the typical social skills you can. Instead of children with autism spectrum disorders, it has been found that it is likely to be a close friend, a person instead of a group of friends. Moreover, it is likely to be a close friend of the other children who have some kind of failure. Sense of parental addiction to the quality of the friendship of a child with autism spectrum disorders. Sense of emotional attachment with their parents, usually compensate for the lack of social skills that would inhibit friendship.
Time, moderation, and with proper instruction, children with autism spectrum disorders will be able to form a friendship after realizing its advantages and disadvantages. Research conducted by Frankel ET AL. Instruction that parental involvement plays a child to an important, such as the development of friendship paper has shown. Along with the father of intervention, experts school plays an important role in teaching social interaction skills and peer role. Paraprofessionals, namely, one-on-one and classroom assistants assistant, often in order to promote friendship, to make an important friendship, take the kids in order to maintain, along with children BSDs has been placed in.

Lessons and training can help a fellow of autistic children, but bullying is a major concern even in social situations. According to the Hannah O'Connor, of The New York Times, bullying, children with autism have hidden more likely to live independently for having Asperger syndrome, it is more likely to occur in the opposite. Because they have a lot of lack of social skills and rituals as children with complete autism, but most of these children are at risk because they are at the end of high performance autism spectrum, which are more likely to flow mainly at school. Children on the autism spectrum increasingly difficult as they have mocked maliciously when they are being bullied, they realize social cues as always do not know.

Kenyon
Conventional wisdom, good friendship has been suggested to improve the welfare and general sense of well being of the person. In fact, a strong social support is a lot of research has found that to improve the prospects of women to health and longevity. Conversely, loneliness and lack of social support, heart disease, viral infections and cancer, including has been linked to an increased risk of high mortality rate as a whole. Even the two researchers to improve physical and mental health of both friendship network, called "vaccine action."

There is an impressive body of friendship and connection of health research, but the exact reason for the connection is unknown. Most of the research in this area is a prospective study on a large scale, according to the people over time, but there may be a correlation between the two variables (friendship and health status), there is a cause and effect case, the relationship, for example, the idea that researchers do not yet know a good friendship as it really improve health. number theory, tried to explain this link. These theories have included to encourage your friends to a good friend to bring a healthier lifestyle. And encourage your friends to find support services and access to good friends ever needed. As a good friend, friends will strengthen coping skills in the treatment of diseases and other health problems. As a good friend, really it gives an effect on the physiological pathway that protects health.

Quality
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His definition of the Encyclopedia of Diderot offers early modern concept of good friendship in the 18th century He writes:

. ? "Friendship with someone decent, is nothing more than a practice in order to maintain a comfortable friendship friendship trade not exceeding it, is not intended to be limited to these terms, it is said, but it is a narrow framework but beyond people are watching to do, two people, without which nothing wrong with that friends, does not maintain a connection to give a reciprocal them joy. we are men, it is also possible that trade containing any of the mind and heart. is known as a consideration heart pure non-commerce knowledge, the heart is the cause, it is in friendship trade to take the interest of the pleasure derived from it I to describe the friendship of all things , more precisely, the most appropriate is the idea, which has itself, please refer to the whole of the property in the same way. "

The quality of friendship is important for human welfare. The high quality of friendship, ultimately strongly, leading to a healthy relationship is not a good way to resolve the conflict. Good friendship is known as (Helm, 2012), "Life is strengthening." welfare full citation will be strengthened joy and participate in the activities of the Friends [needed]. Friendship is related to well-being are the basic needs to provide a context that is fulfilled, "the quality of friendship (Emir, 2010 years)." [Full citation needed] of friendship quality, people who use their personally identifiable information leads to feel more comfortable. A higher quality directly friendship other studies, children with high quality friendship, suggesting that it can be protected from the appearance of a particular disorder (Bend, 2002). [Full citation needed] self-esteem, will contribute to the development of self-confidence and society, such as anxiety and depression.

Variations of culture
Ancient Greece
Friendship was the topic of discussion for moral philosophy significantly Plato, Aristotle and the Stoics. The issue has been discussed until the reappearance of feminism also contextualize and ethical approach to the modern era. In ancient Greece, the opening in friendship, was seen as the expansion of the car. Friend is another self, so, Aristotle, who has been associated with the same person as superior is his friend that relates to himself, "so he wrote simply being himself her as a chosen friend of Being is in choice- the same or similar methods, there is a value for him. " ancient Greece, with the same word (" philosophy ") was used for the" friend "and" lover ".

Central Asia
In Central Asia, the friendship of men are reserved and tend to be respected in nature. They are, you can use the nickname and the diminutive of his first name.


friends Eastern Asia
East Asia
That friend has a culture of East Asia, it will be understood as being formed from an early age. Another form of relationship in social media and chat is not considered an official friendship in the culture of East Asia. Both of friendship of men and women in East Asia began at an earlier age, it becomes stronger throughout the year to work with school education. A variety of people in the culture of East Asia, close friend they call, very close, and has "a close friend with the group." The best friend in the 2-3 closest to a specific person compared with some East Asian culture in the United States, a lot of people, please refer to more than one person as your "best friend". Near someone who is in the culture of East Asia, which honor and a privilege is believed friend. In the Chinese context, to maintain relationships, there is a very strong sense to improve. Relationships with friends in Eastern culture and Central Asia, usually, someone is holding a geographically not break until it moves into another part of the countries of the strong bond of the county.

Germany
Their friendship so that loyalty has been held in high esteem, usually, although last a lifetime, Germans in general, there is a relatively small number of friends. friendship between Germany and provides a significant amount of commitment and support. They carefully, is that the Germans so there is a tendency to keep the deepest and the relationship will be building their own on the distance between the new people, it can be aloof shown in other countries. They are a few friends and many classmates, coworkers, neighbors, and to draw a sharp distinction between others. It is the transition from a relationship person of a companion case to friends that have occurred so far, it could take a few months or a few years.

Islamic culture

The Middle East, East Africa, men and hand in friendship.
In Islamic culture, friendship is also known as companionship and abash. The concept is taken seriously, a number of important attributes of a friend worthwhile, as this is a good can be properly delineated in the meantime the righteous (or Salish), as the concept appeared in the media Islamic If so, how is that evil. Translation perspective and knowledge of others is thought to be important. emphasized forgiveness on errors and loyalty among friends, "love for Allah" is believed to be the ratio of maximum importance between the two people.

Middle East
When compared with other cultures, of the Middle East (or the Near East), friendship is considered to be more serious. Friends, regardless, and respect of deficiencies, each other, regardless of the experience of taxation in order to help another friend, is the people who will pay a personal sacrifice.

It will recognize many of the Arab peoples friendship seriously impacts social and deeply as before participating in such a relationship, consider the personal attributes, such as the nature of the character of the person.

Russia
A friend hugs South Asia
Many of the qualities of the era of modern Russian culture to support the Soviet era. lack of connection of the Soviet Union, in order to help people get medical care, as an employee of the hospital, in order to get what they need, there was a need to create a relationship with people from a company in special year. This practice has led to a sense of community and interpersonal connection (Babbage 2010). Many of these practices, has continued until now. Therefore, in a non-efficiency in the government, the Russians making it easy for any company or business, you can rely on friends and family. This traditional type of relationship, Russia (2010 Cabbage) are greatly appreciated. In the full citation needed] In general, instead of modern young Russians focus on the economic prosperity of the bonds of friendship in the mid-2000.

Other conditions of the Soviet era, it is difficult Russians took to form a relationship. Trusting someone else, but mostly because of the objection, we open the risk of being reported to the state. As Germany, people of Soviet society, but had very few friends, but a friend who had been very close. These trends have continued in modern Russia (leaf and Place 2005). Another trend [full citation needed] in Russia, many of the people using the cost, as their course of study and such friendship, obliged to limit things in your life brings benefits to which has been is that focus. Russian young adults, who can affect the friendship can not only have succeeded in their studies, in order of their work, they use a more practical approach is a trend.

United States 
Kisangani is an American example of replacing a small token of friendship.
In the United States, a lot of kind of relationship has been regarded as a friendship. Since when Stout (the child enters primary school, many teachers and adults, call a friend "friend" in children, in most social environments in the classroom and children, instructions on how to work with his friends has been, his friends have said that if it is 2010). This kind of open to the full citation approach needed] friendship, a lot of Americans in order that the person they are especially close to specify the "best friend" (2010 Stout), particularly young people, has been in the front. For [full citation needed] is a lot of psychologists of American children, this term is danger. , It is possible cove discrimination and lead to intimidation, for the (2010 Stout).

For Americans, friends, people who are quite often, population statistics, there are attitudes and activities tend to resemble themselves (sheet and Place 2005). [Full citation needed] many culturally friendship at a time to appreciate his deep trust and respect, the Americans, the word "friend to describe most people who have such qualities (Stout 2010) use". There is also the United States of the difference between men and women to have a friendship with [full citation needed] same sex. According to the survey, American men have a friendship with a very deep meaning as other men. Abstract and in the United States, but a lot of men and women have the same definition of privacy, women are more likely to practice intimacy of friendship (Sugar and Shapiro, 2001). [Full citation needed] Many of the studies also, the Americans, the final and friends have discovered that the loss of contact. This can be done unusual in many other cultures (leaf and Place 2005). [You must have full quote]

According to the research documented in June 2006 of the American Sociological Review, at least since 1985 Americans, which is believed to suffer a loss in the quality and quantity of close friendship in the study, all of a quarter of Americans who do not have a confidant is completely closed, and says that the average total number of henchman per capital has been reduced from four to two.

Divorce has also contributed to the decline of friendship between the American. (Newman and Newman, p.475, 2012) in the international comparison of the "divorce rate in the United States, the United Kingdom, Canada, New Zealand, is higher than in 34 other countries, including Australia." [Full citation needed] in divorce, on the side "in many couples is a member of the relationship" as a particular friend, you lose the other and lose friends through the process.

Advances in technology have also been blamed for the decline friendship with the United States. Ethan · J · stripe, is the author of a group of friends friend and professor of right-to-book of the University of Hastings California, who work long and online communication is found in large amounts to form is difficult friendship, take away from the personal communication has been suggested. Social networks such as Facebook and Twitter has also help make it more difficult to achieve emotional ties led to the reduction of the amount of personal communication experience in everyday life, and. (Newman and Newman) [full citation needed] (Berry, 2012) (Freeman, 2011).

Paul Hollander wrote to the Soviet Union and the Society of the United States (1973): In American society, reference will be made to the term "friendship" applies as acquaintanceships of the Soviet Union (and many of Europe) relationship. Similarly, many of the students and observers of the American Society of native and foreign friends, American, suggests that there is a tendency to limit short-term superficial, and privacy. American friendship is, in many cases, solidarity and moral, it does not become a substitute for a life of emotional support.

Type
agénticos friendship
In the agnostics friendship, the parties seek help each other to achieve practical goals in their personal and professional life. Genetic friend exam study, and to complete the project, or may be useful for the movement of housing friends home. Val en to share time together, only if you have the time available in order to help others. These relationships are not sharing personal information and general feelings are included.
Best friend (or close friend)
Best friend each other share a very strong interpersonal relationships.
Please see: best friends forever
Blood of brothers and sisters
This term is either birth, reference may be made to the parties to a friend swear allegiance to mix their blood together.

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  1. What is this??
    It's like an article from Wikipedia translated to Japanese, then to Spanish, then to English!! Rubbish!

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